friendship

So...back after a interval....sorry was so engrossed with the routine...did not reallly get time to pendown something....today i thot at anycost i shd write....so when i was thinking what to write....thot why not talk abt friendship...which is one of the vital relationship that happens to anyone during thier life apart from family and love....family is something which we do not get to choose....but this is not like that...friendship is something for which we are the creators....we choose n pick our friends..and i tell u getting good friends is something like a boon....becos the relation does so many things to u that even a family,spouse or children cannot do at times...for example there are certain things that happen in ur life that u can share only with ur friends....if u think and see the relation seems magical.....people from two different gender,caste,creed and even race become friends...this relation doesnt see anything....even for a marriage the basic qualification is that the guy n gal shud be from same caste...and when u want to work somewhere there are some basic qualifications or experience reqd....but only when we make friendship we dont even think abt anything..and once the relationship is established its becomes lifelong sometimes!!!!!!Having spoken so much abt friends and its speciality ......its always important to make friends with like minded people so that it last long.....and also it shud not be with any motive in mind....if u move wth someone or extend a relation with someone with some expectation in mind then it purely becomes a business ..but frankly these days many friendships are made for one expectation or other(but i am not talking abt that kinda relationship)....and coming back to like minded people...why i said this....if u have friends who can think and be like u....its so nice...you will feel it when u are low or running at bad times....u may not tell explictely tell them what u are going thr....thy themselves will know it...and top of it they will come with some solution for u or if not atleast lend a shoulder that u can always lean n cry!!!!!!i am telling u this out of my exp...i have hard times and tough situations...i will completely loose faith in self and will be running low on morale....zhoooooooooooooom mantra kali...i will find one or my other friend by my side somehow...and if i am with them some how i regain my happiness and the lost confidence....and they are the ones who always wish good luck for u and belief in ur ability than urself.....and with them u can be urself....whatever the situation can be ,.....u can be urself.......thats the best part of it....
To conclude....i really thank god for giving me wonderful persons as my friends....and one such friend is my life partner!!!!!what more i can ask god for......i cherish all of them and what difference they have done to my world.......saying thanks will be formal....and definetly dont need it from me to be with me.....but still....BIG THANKS for coming into my life and making my life better!!!!!